What bothered me
“It’s a complex I had since I was 18. My body was already well formed. I don’t really know what triggered this discomfort. I have never had a comment or a reflection from a partner, for example. It was really between me and me. I couldn’t get past it. I thought about it all the time. I found my labia minora too large. I spent years talking about it. It was an embarrassment that blocked me enormously, especially in my sex life. Obviously, I think that everything that we can see in the movies, these images of the female sex which do not reflect reality have played a lot in the perception of my own body. »
What decided me
“First of all, I talked to my gynecologist about it. It was to him that I confided for the first time this complex that had haunted me for years. For him, there was no problem. He reassured me by telling me that my vulva was completely normal. It helped me for a while, but the complex was stronger. So he told me about this procedure: nymphoplasty. I saw a few surgeons but it didn’t happen. I met Dr. Dutot who immediately put me at ease. That’s the key I think, especially for an intervention like this. »
“I had no apprehension. I knew it was going to change my life. I had already experienced this with my rhinoplasty (which was my second complex). I couldn’t wait to see the result. It is an operation that lasts an hour. I left the same evening. »
And after ?
“My first thought was to tell myself that I was finally liberated and that my sexuality was going to be too. I had no pain. I had to rest for a week for everything to heal properly and without complications. I had bandages to change. I wore some sort of diaper to prevent bleeding. Honestly, I haven’t had many but each case is different. »
how i feel today
“I am completely liberated. I am uninhibited. It’s a new life. It’s a reset. My sex life has completely changed. I finally have a fulfilling sexuality. If I had to do it again, I wouldn’t wait so long. »
What others say
“You should know that I never talked about my complex. I was afraid of being judged. A few weeks before the operation, I told my best friends. They didn’t believe it. I had asked one of them to pick me up after the operation. She thought I was playing a joke on her and that on D-Day I was going to reveal my deception. From the moment I knew I was going to have surgery, I started telling everyone about it, even my mother. I had no judgment from my relatives. »
And tomorrow ?
“For the moment, I have no desire, no project because I no longer have a complex. »
Her doctor’s point of view
“Nymphoplasty is an intervention which consists in shortening the length of the labia minora at the level of the vulva. Although there are an endless variety of vulva shapes and none are abnormal, in some women a severe imbalance between the labia minora and labia majora can lead to daily discomfort. Indeed, when the labia minora protrude significantly, the permanent friction of this very fragile skin (mucosa) when wearing tight-fitting clothes, during sports activities or even during sexual intercourse can represent a major discomfort. It is therefore not really an aesthetic indication as one could falsely simplify it. Besides, almost all of the patients I have been able to treat come without any remark from their partner motivating their decision. What is important to remember is that, like all interventions, this one is not without risk. This area is particularly vascularized: bleeding can occur during the first 24 hours. It is necessarily a friction zone, a healing disorder (disunity) can therefore occur in the first 15 days. It is recommended to avoid smoking and it is forbidden to bathe, sexual intercourse and sport for 1 month after the intervention. Once the first month has passed, life can resume its course. »